Lecture 16
1But, as has been true in many other cases, when they were at last married, the most ideal of situations was found to have been changed to the most practical. Instead of having shared their original duties, and as school-boys would say, going halves, they discovered that the cares of life had been doubled. This led to some distressing moments for both our friends; they understood suddenly that instead of dwelling in heaven they were still upon earth, and had made themselves slaves to new laws and limitations. Instead of being freer and happier than ever before, they had assumed new responsibilities; they had established a new household, and must fulfill in some way or another the obligations of it. They looked back with affection to their engagement; they had been longing to have each other to themselves, apart from the world, but it seemed they never felt so keenly that they were still units in modern society.
2 The former friend . A sad thing . At best a wistful memory ; at worst a dangerous
enemy who is in possession of many of your deepest secrets. But what was it that drove you apart? A misunderstanding , a betrayed confidence ,an unrepaid loan ,an ill-conceived flirtation. A poor choice of spouse can do in a friend just like that. Going into the business together can be a serious mistake. Time, money, distance ; all noted friendship killers. You quit doing drugs, you’re not such good friends with your dealer anymore.,
And lest we forget , there are the friends you love to hate. They call at inopportune times . They say stupid things. They butt in , they boss you around ,they embarrass you in public. They invite themselves over . They take advantage and are convinced they are your best friend on the planet.
3 Over the past decade , the frequency , severity and political significance of global health problems have produced more awareness and action by countries ,international organizations and non-governmental actors on healthy issues than at any other time in history.