英语阅读教程作业一
No doubt everyone has to apologise for his life ,sooner or later .when we appear at the last judgementand the recording angle reads out a list of our sins ,we will presumably be given an opportunity to apologise ,in the old sense of rebuttal ,and in the new sense too, by way of confession and plea of repentance .in this life ,it is well to apologise (in the new sense ) but promptly ,voluntarily, fully and sincerely .if the error is a matter of opinion and un-punishable ,so much the better –an apology then becomes a gracious and creditable occasion ,and an example to all .an enforced apology is a miserable affair .besides ,there is something distinguished about a ready apology .it is the mark of a gentleman ,more particularly if it is not necessary .it is the opposite of revenge .bacon wrote ,”in seeking revenge ,a man is but equal with his enemy ,but in forgiving him ,he is superior ,for it is a princes part to pardon ,”so ,the person who apologises freely has the moral ball in his court .
有时候，在工作中重要的是能否处理好人际关系而不是多大的才能。人际关系就是一种善于听取别人意见体察别人的需要，学新接手批评的能力。善于处理人际关系的人敢于承认错误，敢于承担自己的责任，这是对待错误的一种成熟和负责人的态度。
这就是为什么许多平原的公司雇员的大调整中保住了位置，而有才能的人反而下岗，因为他们很注意处理各方面的关系，所以八面玲珑，到处有缘，而人际关系差的人往往不能处理好批评。碰到错误，他们首先想到的是自己，拒不承认自己有错，或情绪低落或大发雷霆，成为有刺得人，难以相处。
毫无疑问，每个人都会在人生的某个时刻为自己的生命辩解。当我们在最后的审判和拍摄角度被列出我们的罪过，我们大概会得到一个向大家辩解的机会，反驳我们以往的过错，在新的认识上进行忏悔和认罪悔改。在生活中，它是道歉（新义），但及时，主动，全面和真诚却并不容易做到。如果错误是一个问题的意见也不会接受惩罚，那就很好处理，辩解就变成了一个亲切的和可信的场合，有很多例子可以证明。然而强制辩解是一件痛苦的事情。此外，在辩解不是很必要的时候，辩解已经成为区分一个人是否是绅士的标志。这是背道而驰的。培根写道：“一个人在寻求报复，与他的敌人就是平等的与，但在原谅他自己的事情，他是卓越的，因为他是一个诸侯可以被赦免”。因此，一个在法庭上为自己自由辩护的人应该具有一定的道德素质。
Sometimes it is the ability to handle interpersonal relationships rather than how much you can that important in the job. Interpersonal relationships is meaning listen to the opinions of others, understand the needs of others, the ability to take over criticism. A person who has
interpersonal skills will admit his mistakes, and take their own responsibility, this is the attitude of a mature and responsible person.to treat the error. This is why the of many plains company employees a major adjustment to keep the position, talented people instead of laid-off, because they are very careful to handle all aspects of the relationship, so smooth and slick, everywhere destined interpersonal poor people often can not handle criticism. Encounters an error, they first thought of himself, refused to admit his wrong, or depressed or angry, become a stabbed people, it is difficult to get along with him .