PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR
?4.MAY THE PEACE AND JOY OF THE CHRISTMAS THROUGHOUT NEW YEAR
?5.GOOD LOCK GOOD HEALTH AND GOOD CHEER
?6.BEST WISHES FOR A HAPPY AND PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR
?7.MAY YOUR HOLIDAY SEASON BE A JOYOUS ONE AND MAY EACH DAY OF THE NEW YEAR BRING YOU A FULL MEASURE OF SUCCESS AND HAPPINESS
?8.WISHES YOU PEACE JOY AND HAPPINESS THROUGH CHRISTMAS AND THE COMING YEAR
?9.MAY WARMEST WISHES HAPPY THOUGHTS AND FRIENDLY GREETINGS COME AT CHRISTMAS AND STAY WITH YOU THE WHOLE YEAR THROUGH ?10.SPECIAL WISHES AT THIS SPECIAL TIME
?11.MAY PEACE AND LOVE BE YOUR NEW YEAR FILLED WITH ALL YOUR FAVOURITE THINGS
?12.WISHING YOU ALL THE JOYS OF CHRISTMAS AND A YEAR OF HAPPINESS
?13.WISHING YOU A SPARKLING CHRISTMAS AND BRIGHT NEW YEAR
?14.MAY THE BEAUTY AND JOY OF CHRISTMAS REMAIN WITH YOU THROUGHOUT THE NEW YEAR
?15.BEST WISHES FOR THANKSGIVING ?16.BEST WISHES FOR HAPPY EASTER
?17.BEST WISHES FOR XMAS AND NEW YEAR FILLED WITH SUCCESS AND HAPPINESS
?18.LOVE AND BEST WISHES FOR MERRY GHRISTMAS AND HAPPY PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR
?19.AS ANOTHER YEAR APPROAGHES WE LOOK FORWARD TO CONTINUANCE OF THIS PLEASANT ASSOCIATION WITH YOU BEST WISHES FOR MERRY CHRISTMAS AND NEW YEAR OF GENUINE HAPPINESS
?20.MAY FORTUNE SMILE UPON AND FAVOR YOU WITH MANY BLESSINGS IN NEW YEAR
?21.MAY NEW YEAR BRING YOU HEALTH HAPPINESS ALL OTHER GOOD THINGS
?22.HOPE NEW YEAR WILL BEING YOU AND YOUR FAMILY EVERY HAPPINESS GOOD HEALTH CONTINUED SUCCESS ?23.SINCEREST SEASONS GREETINGS
?24.LOVE TO THE BEST MOTHER IN THE WORLD
?25.WARMEST WISHES FOR HAPPY HOLIDAY SEASON ?26.MY LOVE AND GREETINGS ON MOTHERS DAY BIRTHDAY
?1.CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR 50TH BIRTHDAY
?2.MY AFFECTIONATE THOUGHTS AND EVERY GOOD WISH TO YOU ON YOUR BIRTHDAY
?3.MAY GOOD KIND AND LOVING THINGS BE SOME OF THE JOYS YOUR
BITRHDAY BRINGS
?4.THIS COMES WITH WARM AFFECTION THE BEST WISHES TOO FOR THE NICEST KIND OF BIRTHDAY THAT COULD BE WISHED FOR YOU
?5.WISHING YOU WORLDS OF HAPPINESS ON YOUR BIRTHDAY AND HOPE YOUR COURSE IS CHARTED FOR LOTS OF LUCK ALL YEAR
?6.WE ALL JOIN WISHING YOU VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY AND MANY YEARS HEALTH PROSPERITY
?7.MANY HAPPY RETURNS
?8.WISHING THAT YOUR SPECIAL DAY BE A WINNER ALL THE WAY ?9.MY BEST WISHES ARE WITH YOU ON YOUR BIRTHDAY
?10.CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR BIRTHDAY MY VERY BEST WISHES FOR YOUR MANY YEARS HEALTH AND HAPPINESS
?11.SURE HOPE YOUR BIRTHDAY IS HAPPY AND HOPE IT IS FOLLOWED TOO BY DAYS AND WEEKS AND MONTHS AND YEARS OF HAPPINESS FOR YOU HAPPY BIRTHDAY
?12.WISHING I COULD BE WITH YOU TODAY BEST WISHES FOR HAPPY BIRTHDAY
?13.MANY HAPPY RETURNS OF THIS HAPPY DAY TO YOU
?14.HAPPINESS IN WISHING YOU THE JOYS FOR A BEAUTIFUL DAY AND HOPING LIFE IS MOST WONDERFUL THINGS WILL ALWAYS COME YOUR WAY
?15.WISHING YOU ALL HAPPINESS HEALTH AND PROSPERITY WITH MANY HAPPY RETURNS OF THE DAY
?16.TO HOPE THE DAY THAT YOU ARE TWENTY IS QUITE A SPECIAL ONE AND THAT THE YEAR WILL HOLD GOOD TIMES AND LOTS OF FUN
?17.MAY YOU HAVE MANY MANY HAPPY BIRTHDAYS AND ALWAYS KEEP LOVE LINESS AND CHARM MARRIAGE
1.BEST WISHES ON YOU MARRIAGE
?2.CONGRATULATIONS AND MY(OUR)VERY BEST WISHES TO AHAPPY COUPLE
?3.MAY YOU HAVE MANY HAPPY RETURNS OF WEDDING ANNIVERSARIES ?4.HEARTY CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR MARRIAGE MAY MUCH HAPPINESS BE BROUGHT TO YOU AND YOUR LOVELY WIFE FOR MANY YEARS TO COME
?5.SORRY TO MISS CEREMONY SON CONGRATULATIONS WELCOME MARY TO OUR FAMILY
?6.TO BRIDE AND GROOM LOVE CONGRATULATIONS FROM AN OLD FRIEND
?7.MAY HAPPINESS HEALTH PROSPERITY BE WITH YOU BOTHTHROUGH YEARS TO COME
?8.LET ME OFFER YOU MY WARMEST CONGRATULATIONS ON THE HAPPY OCCASION
?9.EVERY GOOD WISH ON YOUR WEDDING DAY
?10.WISHING YOU A WORLD OF HAPPINESS AND LOVE AS ALL YOUR
DREAMS COME TRUE
?11.CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR HAPPY WEDDING LASTING PROSPERITY TO YOU BOTH
?12.TO THE HAPPY COUPLE CONGRATULATIONS ON THIS HAPPY OCCASION AND BEST WISHES FOR EVERYTHING GOOD IN THE YEARS TO COME
?13.ALL THE JOYS OF HEAVEN ABOVE ARE HERE ON EARTH FOR THOSE WHO LOVE MAY JOY BE YOURS TO HAVE AND HOLD FOREVER
?14.BEST WISHES FOR YOUR WEDDING WISHING YOU BOTH MUCH HAPPINESS AND A WONDERUL LIFE TOGETHER
?15.AS YOU BEGIN YOUR MARRIED LIFE TOGETHER MAY ALL THE PLANS YOU TWO HAVE MADE TURE OUT EXACTLY RIGHT MAY YOU BE BLESSED WITH LOVE AND HAPPINESS FOREVER
?16.CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU AND BEST WISHES TO YOURLOVELY FIANCEE
?17.TO THE BRIDE AND GROOM LOVE AND HAPPINESS ALWAYS CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU BOTH AND MAY YOU ALWAYS STAY AS HAPPY AND MUCH IN LOVE AS ON YOUR WEDDING DAY
?18.MAY THE DREAMS IN YOUR HEARTS AND HOPES YOU HOLD DEAR BRING YOU MUCH HAPPINESS YEAR AFTER YEAR AND THROUGHOUT THE FUTURE
?19.MAY BLESSING CONGRATULATIONS GOOD WISHES AND THE BEST OF EVERYTHING TO YOU FOR ALL THE YEARS AHEAD CONDOLENCES
?1.I WANT TO SEND YOU MY BEST WISHES FOR YOUR QUICK RETURN TO GOOD HEALTH
?2.SURE HOPE AND PRAY YOU WILL BE FIT AND STRONG AND WITH US AGAIN BEFORE TOO LONG GET WELL SOON
?4.HOPING YOU ARE FEELING BETTER EVERY DAY AND WILL SOON BE WELL TO STAY
?5.HERE IS AN EXTRASPECIAL MESSAGE TO MAKE IT VERY PLAIN HOW UCH IT IS HOPED THAT VERY SOON YOU ARE COMPLETELY WELL AGAIN ?6.WARM WISHES WILL BE WITH YOU TODAY AND EACH DAY TOO UNTIL YOU ARE FEELING FINE AGAIN AND ALL IS WELL WITH YOU
?7.SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR ILLNESS HERE IS WISHING YOU WILL BE ON YOUR FEET SOON
?8.VERY SORRY TO HEAR(OF)YOU?RE ACCIDENT ALL (THE)STAFF JOIN ME (IN )EXPRESSING SYMPATHY AND SINCERE WISHES FOR YOUR RAPID AND COMPLETE RECOVERY
?9.HEARTFELT CONDOLENCES TO YOU
?10.MY HEARTFELT SYMPATHY IN YOUR GREAT SORROWS ?11.MAY THE LORD BLESS AND SUSTAIN YOU IN YOUR LOSS
?12.SHOCKED TO LEARN OF YOUR MOTHERS (FATHERS)DEATH EXPRESS HEARTFELT CONDOLENCES IN YOUR BEREAVEMENT
?13.PLEASE ACCEPT MY HEARTFELT
(SINCERE) CONDOLENCE ON (THE) UNTIMELY DEATH OF PRESIDENT PLEASE CONVEY OUR PROFOUND SYMPATHY TO THE BEREAVED FAMILY ?14.HEARTY CONDOLENCES TO YOU MAY YOU HAVE STRENGTH TO BEAR THIS GREAT AFFLICTION
?15.PLEASE ACCEPT MY WARMEST TRIBUTE TO MEMORY OF DECEASED ?16.RECALLING LOODK OF DECEASED IN LIFETIME I TENDER SINCEREST TRIBUTE TO HIS MEMORY
?17.DEEPLY PAINED TO HEAR OF THE FIRE (FLOOD) DAMAGE SUFFERED BY YOUR FACTORY AND HASTEN TO EXTEND OUR SINCERE SYMPATHY IF WE CAN ASSIST YOU IN ANY WAY PLEASE LET US KNOW
?18.THERE IS SO LITTLE WORDS CAN SYA BUT MAY THIS COMFORT YOU IN YOUR SORROW
?19.WITH OUR DEEPEST SYMPANTHY IN THE LOVE THAT SURROUNDS YOU MAY YOU FIND STRENGTH IN THE MEMORIES YOU CHERISH MAY YOU FIND PEACE
?20.HEARTFELT SYMPATHY AND MUCH LOVE TO YOU DEAR FRIEND AS YOU GO THROUGH THIS TIME OF GRIEF
?21.THINKING OF YOU WITH SYMPATHY IN YOUR TIME OF SORROW ?22.WITH DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO YOU AND ALL YOUR FAMILY
?23.IT WAS WITH SADNESS THAT 1 LEARNED OF YOUR WIFE?S WIFE?S (HUSBAND IS) DEATH PLEASE ACCEPT MY SINCERE CONDOLENCES ?24.WARM THOUGHS AND DEEPEST SYMPATHY ARE WITH YOU THANKS
?1.THANKS FOR HOSPITALITY DURING MY STAY
?2.YOUR THOUGHTFULNESS HAS GIVEN ME GREAT JOY
?3.THANK YOU FOR DOING SO MUCH TO MAKE MY TRIP TO AMERICA INTERESTING
?4.YOUR KINDNESS IN OUR TIME OF NEED WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN ?5. THANKS FOR YOUREXCELLENT PRESENT
?6.THANK YOU FOR THE PLEASURE YOUR WEDDING GIFT BROUGHT AND FOR YOUR GOOD WISHES
?7.YOUR KINDNESS MEANS SO MUCH
?8.THANKS YOU FOR YOUR KIND GENEROSITY
?9.THANK YOU EVER SO MUCH FOR YOUR CONGRATULATIONS AND GOOD WISHES I HOPE I CANLIVE UP TO THEM
?10.PLEASE ACCEPT OURS INCERE THANKS FOR THE KIND RECEPTION AND ASSISTANCE YOU HAVE GIVEN US DURING OUR STAY IN YOUR CITY ?11.THANK YOU FOR KIND EXPRESSION OF SYMPATHY IT IS DEEPLY APPRECIATED
?12.YOUR MEMORIES OF MY FATHER WERE A SOURCE OF GREAT JOY TO ME THANK YOU FOR SHAPING THEM WITH ME
?13.YOUR SYMPATHYAND
THOUGHTFULNESS WILL ALWAYS BE
REMEMBERED WITH DEEP APPRECIATION
?14.WITH THANKS FORM THE FAMILY YOUR KIND EXPRESSION OF SYMPATHY IS DEEPLY APPRECIATED CHAPTER Ⅵ
MATTERS NEEDING ATTENTION
?Different culture, customs and babies may easily cause some misunderstandings in external relationships.
?Thus, we should promote mutual understanding and friendship between the peoples of all countries, avoid some joke taboos and offensive subjects in conversation, keep abreast of various foreign customs and etiquette so as to enhance our social ability in association with foreigners, reduce our failure in work and raise working efficiency. MISUNDERSTANDING
?When a foreigner has dinner in China, the host will say on purpose that there is not much food or not many dishes to eat even if it is really a square meal, and the dishes are all delicious, but the host is used to saying that they do not taste good.
?All those kinds of excessive modesty as courtesy are very difficult for a foreign guest to understand and he may. Even misunderstand the host?s politeness. While at table, the host always presses more food onto the guest?s plate as soon as he has emptied it of the previous helping. That?s the Chinese customs of hospitality. But that often makes a foreign guest feel very awkward.
?The guest has to eat the food even if he does not feel like it, because it is considered bad manners in the West to leave one?s food on the plate.
?Most westerners are very direct. If they want something, they will ask for it. If not, they will say, “ No thanks ”.
?Many western people only know that “ honesty is the best policy ”.Generally speaking, they trust others first. Once they find that others do not tell the truth, the credit is over. In our China, courtesy might be the exception of honesty.That is where misunderstanding occurs.
SUBJECTS TO AVOID科目,以避免
?China and western countries are separated by vast oceans and their languages and thoughts make dramatically differences sometimes what we consider polite is difficult for them to understand and even taken as an insult upon them or at least a kind of disrespect. It is of great magnitude for us to learn what should not be talked about and avoided. ?Avoiding Topics Concerning Personal Affairs ?Avoiding Politics
Politics is something very sensitive. ?Avoiding Racial Problems
?Avoiding Argument on Religion
Religious activities constitute an important aspect of western people?s life. ?Avoiding Women?s Right Issue
It is apparent that at any time or in any place Westerners show abundant respect for women in terms of etiquette.
?Avoiding Topics Concerning the Body